Acceptance of winning

How many of us are afraid to win? I mean honestly! I see a lot of people with big dreams and they are not ready to grab a hold of it and own it. If it was the million dollar lottery that we just won would you say, "oh no thank you I am affaid to win that, I can't accept the million that I just won!" What? No, you would be flipping out ready to win. You would be so ready you would have a list in your mind with in seconds of what you would like to do with that money . So with that said why do so many of us over evaluate what our abilitys are to win.
We are made to win, each and every one of us as long as it follows some basic rules someone else in return will win. So how do you know if it is a win win situation?

Well this is sometimes were selfish people forget to look at. See if it in any way benefits you and only you no matter what it does to someone else. So this is not working in the win win.

There are times too that you have an opportunity to join something wonderful and you don't do it because you over think it you believe that it's too good to be true so you don't take the opportunity this is not win win either.

I am sure you are smart and a good person keep going and doing your best find your win win.

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Forgiveness is Key.

In my life alone I have had a very hard time with forgiveness. I have liked holding on to stuff like the boy that threw a base ball at my face when I was playing on the play ground in school or the time the boys dumped chocolate milk on my head at the school dance.

The day I was diagnosed with brain cancer.

 I held on to too much in my past I held it close like it protected me or something I would hold on to it so tight I would not let anything else in. For me life has shown me some messed up things and I have been afraid to move on and be strong. Now I am ready to be a big girl.

 Before I get into detail about me I want to remind everyone that I am about forgiveness I do my best to forgive all around me. My question is this how can we move on if we don't forgive the past? If I want to be forgiven, I must first forgive.

 I also want to remind you to forgive yourself as we all have so many things we hold on to things an mistakes that they have done and don't forgive ourselves. It pains me when I see people do that  please forgive on every level, it will give you a freedom like no other.

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